My ex does little things to compete. A small example is that the kids told me that instead of serving them the healthier breakfast we've always fed them, she's started feeding them lucky charms. She's doing it to be the fun mom and have them like her and her house a little more. It doesn't seem smart to stick with breakfast they don't like as much when she didn't. But I also know I shouldn't compete. There doesn't seem to be any good answer. Anyone else hit this?